November 8, 2026 · 18+

Five chats I actually tried

I wanted a girlfriend who would actually text back.

Same job for all five. Start a chat with a fictional adult, and see if pictures or video come with it. Secrets AI stayed first because the product is the conversation, and it remembers the thread. The numbers are just the order I landed on.

The one I kept

Secrets AI

secrets.ai

I came for a private chat and that's what I got. She texts, and the thread stays. I didn't have to build a video studio to find out if the conversation worked.

Chat firstThe homepage is the girlfriend, not a prompt box.
MemoryThe chat keeps what you already said.
StraightforwardI knew what I was paying for before I went further.
9.1 out of 10

If you already know what you want

How I'd rank them

019.1

Secrets AI

secrets.ai

This is the one I use when I want the chat and nothing else in the way.

  • I started a girlfriend chat and it kept the thread.
  • The site I used is built around texting, not a generator.
  • Pictures and video aren't what the homepage shows. I wouldn't subscribe for those until I saw them in the app.
028.8

DarLink

darlink.ai

This is where I go when I want the girlfriend, the photos, and a video in one place.

  • I tried it before a card. Chat, a feed, photos, and video are all there.
  • I built her instead of landing in a blank prompt box.
  • The best pictures and video sit on the paid side. The free chat is the test.
038.5

JOI

joi.com

This is the one I use when I want to build her and then keep talking.

  • I picked a look and a personality, then the chat started.
  • I could ask for pictures inside the same chat. Video is part of the pitch too.
  • The free side is enough to see it. The longer roleplay is the paid part.
048.1

Xotic AI

xotic.ai

I use this one when I don't want to build anyone. I just want to pick a girl and talk.

  • It's a shelf of characters. I chose one and started chatting.
  • The first session is short. There's no long builder.
  • It's thinner than DarLink. I wouldn't come here for a video studio.
057.6

Promptchan

promptchan.com

I use this one when I want the picture first and the chat second.

  • I made stills and clips from a prompt. The girlfriend chat is in the same account.
  • Lots of styles. I didn't have to sit through a dating signup to generate.
  • If all I wanted was someone texting me, Secrets AI felt more like that. The good generator tools are paid.

Side by side

Swipe. They're in one row.

Secrets AI
ChatThe whole product
MemoryYes
PicturesNot on the homepage
VideoNot the point
DarLink
ChatYes
Build herYes
PicturesYes
Free startFree to try
JOI
ChatYes
Build herYes
PicturesIn the chat
Free startFree to look
Xotic AI
ChatPick and talk
Build herNot really
PicturesThe characters
VideoNot a studio
Promptchan
ChatSecondary
Build herA prompt
PicturesThe main thing
VideoYes

Why this order

I kept asking the same thing. Can I start a chat with a fictional adult and tell, before I pay, whether she texts back like a person or whether I'm really in a picture generator? I didn't invent a lab test. This is the order I landed on after trying them.

is first because the chat is the product. I texted, the thread stayed, and I wasn't dropped into a prompt box. I wouldn't subscribe there for pictures. The homepage I used doesn't show a generator.

I put next because I could try the girlfriend before a card, and chat wasn't the only thing. There's a feed, photos, and video once you're in. The free part is the conversation. The better pictures sit on the paid side.

On I built a look and a personality and then kept talking. I could ask for pictures in the same chat. The free side is enough to see if you like it. The longer roleplay is what they charge for.

is the fastest start. I picked a character off the shelf and talked. There's less to customize than DarLink, and I wouldn't go there for a video studio.

On I made stills and clips first. The girlfriend chat is there, in the same account, but it isn't why I went there. If all I wanted was someone texting me, I went back to Secrets AI. The generator tools that are actually good are paid.

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Secrets AI · 9.1 The one I kept using